I create a world of safety and connection through touch and open-hearted communication, so that my clients can access open-hearted choice in manifesting their sexual life potential.

Hello and welcome to my site! My name is Kian de la Cour, I am a Certified Somatic Sex Educator ("somatic" meaning "the body as perceived from within"), Certified Sexological Bodyworker and teacher of Consensual Touch™ workshops based in Dawlish, Devon. I draw on extensive experience in tantra, bodywork and shamanic sexuality, having trained with some of the world's leading edge teachers in conscious sexuality and sex coaching. Since I started working professionally in 1994, I have helped hundreds of people harness the power of their sexuality to catalyse new-found confidence and creativity in their lives.

Some reasons you might see me:

  • A desire to feel more vibrantly alive
  • Coming out of your head and into your body (embodiment)
  • Interest in exploring anal, prostate or G-spot eroticism 
  • Wanting more ejaculatory choice
  • Reawakening desire and sensation before, during or after childbirth or gender re-assignment
  • Learning about touch and boundaries
  • Masturbation coaching and orgasmic yoga
  • Tantric massage
  • Vaginismus or painful sex
  • Problems with an enlarged prostate
  • A desire for more joy in your life
  • Issues with orgasm: whether too soon, too late or not at all (pre-orgasmia)
  • Learning about erotic anatomy

I work with individuals and couples of all sexual orientations, gender identities, characteristics and expressions.

"Kian is kind, respectful, attentive, trustworthy, and has great hands! I have had the good fortune to get on his table, and do so any time I have the chance. I highly recommend him".

- Dr. Betty Martin

Would you like to come into your body through touch and experience deep acceptance of your erotic, innocent and authentic self?

Would you like more intimacy in your life?

I am honoured to accompany you on your journey to reclaiming your sexuality as the source of joy and inspiration it can be.


"Kian's integrity and sense of the sacred has enabled me to drop deeply into the intelligence of my own body, opening doors in a way that I hadn't thought possible.  I am so grateful to have been able to place myself in the hands of a man that I could trust - what a gift!

I can truthfully say that he is the best bodyworker that I have ever known.  Kian works with clear boundaries in a supportive and deeply powerful way.  The work that we have done together has been transformative for me"

- L. H., Psychotherapist


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