Sexological Bodywork™ is a unique combination of embodiment and mindfulness that brings you into a greater felt sense of your erotic experiencing. 


Sexological Bodywork™ tools for mindful eroticism include:

  • Body focusing
  • Taoist erotic massage
  • Using breath and movement for relaxation, arousal and excitation and to create greater ejaculatory choice
  • Mapping genital or anal sensation
  • Orgasmic Yoga and mindful masturbation coaching
  • Scar tissue remediation e.g. after childbirth or surgery
  • Appropriate tone for pelvic floor muscles
  • The embodied use of pornography


"Thank you for such a safe and hugely intimate and beautiful experience. This work has given me a profound sense of healing and liberation"

- J. B., Learning support worker


Sexological Bodywork™ makes use of the latest findings in sexology and neuroscience. Mindful practice moves the nervous system into greater integration. This means your erotic practice increases your capacity for empathy with yourself, with others, with every aspect of your life. The heart of the approach is regular practice over time.


To enable this to take place it is recommended that you attend a series of regular sessions, for example weekly or fortnightly. I will also give you home practice so that you continue the learning in your own environment. 


"I was feeling stuck in patterns of behaviour that had been running for years and that I felt powerless to change. It felt pretty scary to look at who I was sexually but I felt immediately safe in Kian’s grounded presence and his completely non-judgemental attitude put me at ease.

"Kian’s intuitive response to my needs and ability to provide clear mirrors in which I can see my behavior more clearly have been instrumental in my continued forward movement. It has been, and continues to be, the greatest investment I have made in myself. I highly recommend him."

- L. J., Psychotherapist.

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Online classes

I have partnered with The New School of Erotic Touch and The Orgasmic Yoga Institute - the premier resources for Sexological Bodyworkers and their students - to bring you the very best online erotic education and instruction. Online tutorials are offered by some of my favourite teachers including Joseph Kramer, Annie Sprinkle, Chester Mainard, Jaiya and many more. Explore new pleasure possibilities for both solo and partnered erotic practices to educate your hands and heart! Just click on the links above and click on a class to enrol or to get more information. You can watch the class online or download-to-own in Quicktime, Windows Media or Flash. Tuition is $19.95 for each class or $39 for all classes.