Learning to Touch: Receiving, Giving, Taking, Allowing.

With Dr. Betty Martin, Katie Sarra and Kian de la Cour

on Saturday May 23rd, 10am - 6pm in Dawlish, Devon.

When you touch your partner (or other friend), are you giving or receiving? Is there a difference? What happens when you know for sure?

When they touch you, is it for you, or for them? Can you tell? Does it matter?

What happens when you take 'Giving' and 'Receiving' apart, so you feel one of them at a time?

For one thing, you find out what they are. You find out how they feed you, how they challenge you, and how they wake you up. They challenge who you think you are as a lover and, quite possibly, as a person.

Receiving and Giving - clear, un-mixed and genuine: few things are more challenging, more liberating - and more fun.

This workshop takes you there.

You fall in love with both of them - equally. That right there is worth the price of admission.

Booking: Tickets are £85 per person. Book your tickets here! https://learningtotouch.eventbrite.com



  • is clothed.
  • is experiential - you will have the opportunity to practice and explore. It is only in the experience of it that it makes sense.
  • respects your boundaries - you never have to touch or be touched by anyone you don't want to. In fact, I'll be showing you how to be more clear about that for yourself.
  • lets you start right where you are. New to the idea or wildly experienced, doesn't matter.
  • gives you a game to take home that makes the whole thing easy, fun, sensual, playful, and if you like, sexy.
  • teaches you the 4 Quadrants - how to create them, find them, feel them, and a glimpse into where they can take you. It is the heart of my forthcoming book 'Learning to Touch: Receiving, Giving, Taking and Allowing'.
  • is fun!




  • are seeking the next level of ease, confidence and joy
  • love and care for each other, but can't quite find the key to loving your love life
  • know there is something more meaningful in sex, but have no idea were to start looking for it
  • have been experimenting with Tantra but find it awkward and contrived 
  • are not comfortable 'receiving' and don't know why or what to do about it
  • want to have more fun!

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This workshop is clothed. There will be options to exchange touch, but it is never required. You are quite welcome to watch the entire time if you like.

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You may also be interested in the workshop the next day - Erotic Massage - which is clothing optional.

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Dr. Betty Martin has had her hands on people professionally for over 30 years. She is a former Chiropractor, currently a sex and intimacy coach, sacred intimate and sexological bodyworker. This class is one of her favorite things in the whole world.

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